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2025

 

Quotes from: 
Walker, Allyn: yn: A Long Dark Shadow; Univer; University of California Press, 2021

My research participants were all minor-attracted people who refrained from any sexual contact with minors, all of whom were dedicated to living lives free of offending. This book is about them: how they form identities as minor-attracted idividuals, how they cope with the stigma they face from society. and how they strategize not to commit offenses.
I use the terms "minor attracted person" and "MAP" throughout the majority of this book ... as an established umbrella term ... with a less stigmatizing nature.
I am writing this book with two main foci - the prevention of child abuse and the promotion of wellbeing among MAPs - because protecting children is important, because MAPs are people who deserve compassion (bold is chosen by Ipce), and because these foci are not contradictairy. It is possible that treating MAPs with empathy is the key (Bold is chosen by Ipce).
Chapter 1 is titled as "Am I a Monster?" The start of the closing word of the book reads: In each interview I asked participants what they would say to a MAP who was just beginning to realize they were attracted to minors. Far and away, the most common response was "You are not a monster."
It has been my goal with this book to make clear the distinction between MAPs and sexual offenders, and to reaffirm that attractions are not equivalent to action. While the MAPs I spoke to in the course of my research often had experienced many struggles, many were able to find happiness, understanding, and the dignity they had been searching for. They found this dignity through the ability to be seen by others and to have their wellbeing recognized as important, through the knowledge that there were other people out there like them, and through validation that they were not destined to become monsters just because of their attractions.

2024

 

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Hocken, Kerensa, & Taylor Jon; Compassion-focused therapy as an intervention for sexual offending
< https://www.ipce.info/library/miscellaneous/compassion-focused-therapy >

Chapter 9 in: Forensic Interventions for Therapy and Rehabilitation - Case Studies ans Analysis - Edited by Belkinda Winter, Nicholas Blagden, Laura Hamilton and Simon Scott - Routledge, London, 2022.

Citaten uit:
Compassie als de kern van de therapie voor daders van seksueel misbruik
Hocken, Kerensa, & Taylor Jon

In: Forensic Interventions for Therapy and Rehabilitation - Case Studies ans Analysis - Edited by Belkinda Winter, Nicholas Blagden, Laura Hamilton and Simon Scott - Routledge, London, 2022.
Ingeleid, geselecteerd en vertaald door Dr Frans E.J. Gieles.  

Quotes from:
Chronos, Agatha, Jahnke Sara, & Blagden Nicholas;
The Treatment Needs and Experiences of Pedohebephiles: A Systematic Review; Archives of Sexual Behavior; 3329 - 3346, Jul 15 2024

On: < https://www.ipce.info/treatment-needs-and-experiences >.
People with a sexual interest in children face significant barriers to seeking and receiving mental health treatment. This review aims to bridge the gap between the treatment needs and experiences of pedohebephiles, and the services aiming to support them.
 
Citaten uit:
De behoeften aan en ervaringen met behandeling van pedo- en hebefielen – Een systematisch overzicht

Agatha Chronos, Sara Jahnke & Nicholas Blagden Archives of Sexual Behavior, 15 juli 2024
Hier vertaald en samengevat door Frans Gieles.
Mensen die zich seksueel aangetrokken voelen tot kinderen (voor en/of tijdens de puberteit)stuiten op grenzen en problemen als ze hulp zoeken in de geestelijke gezondheidszorg. Dit overzicht wil de kloof tussen hun behoeften aan en ervaringen met de zorg die hen wil helpen. [... ... ...]
Wat helpt dan wel?
Een therapeut die weet wat pedofilie is en die een veilige en begripsvolle plek weet te scheppen.

2022

Citaten uit:
Anton Nootenboom: ‘Praten, dat vinden wij mannen moeilijk’  
Freek Schravesande - NRC, 21 juni 2022
Anton Nootenboom (35) leerde in het leger houden van afzien, maar onderdrukte te lang zijn emoties. Als The Barefoot Dutchman liep hij grote afstanden om aandacht te vragen voor mentale problemen bij mannen. „Ik had op dat gebied geen weerstand opgebouwd.”
[... ... ... ...]
„Ik ben aan de slag gegaan als spreker op scholen en bij bedrijven, om te vertellen dat het tonen van emoties geen zwakte is maar juist moedig. En dat wij mannen een veilige ruimte voor elkaar moeten creëren om erover te praten. Want zelfmoord onder mannen is ook hier een probleem.

2021

Shira Keller; Trouw, 24 augustus 2019
Als je droomt slaapt je ego
De psychodynamische therapie à la Jung is in opkomst, constateert therapeut Nancy van den Berg-Cook: ‘We kunnen niet alles op wilskracht overwinnen.’

2019

Gieles, F.E.J.; Pedofilia and Pedosexuality - Lecture 2019, Amsterdam
Please, make a distinction between pedophilia, feelings, and pedosexuality, acts.

2018

Gieles, F.E.J.; Pedofilie - Een serie mini-colleges.

2017

Gieles, F.E.J.; Forget the four percent - Remember the one percent - August 2017
Now and then, I have said that the research of Rind c.s. should prove that a sexual experience during childhood in only four percent should result in lasting harm, and only for girls and only for cases of incest and force. This is not correct. I discovered this in a shock after someone said that this was only one percent. In my text to correct this into 4%, I wanted to place a link to this cipher in Rind’s meta-analysis. This 4% cannot be found there! ... The 1% can be found in Rind’s meta=analysis, but this cipher has another meaning.
... Explanation ... Snakes in the grass ... Contemplation ...

Gieles, F.E.J.; Vergeet de vier procent - onthoud de één procent - Augustus 2017
Nu en dan en her en der heb ik beweerd dat uit het onderzoek van Rind c.s. zou blijken dat blijvende schade na een seksueel contact in de kindertijd slechts in vier procent van de gavallen optrad, en dan nog alleen bij meisjes en dan alleen na incest of dwang. Dit klopt bij nader inzien niet.
Hier kwam ik tot mijn schrik achter toen iemand beweerde dat dit één procent was. Bij mijn tekst om dit te corrigeren in 4% wilde ik een link zetten naar dit getal in Rind's onderzoek. Die 4% bleek niet te vinden te zijn! ...
Wel komt de 1% voor in Rind's meta-analyse, maar deze betekent daar iets heel anders.
... Uitleg ... Adders onder het gras ... Beschouwing ...
 

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New articles added since 2012. Both lists give author, article, short summary and a link to the articles on the website of JON: < http://www.jorisoost.nl >.
This group, later two groups, has practisized, further developped and funded (in science and philosophy) the methodology of the self-help groups. Because the group is a Dutch group, the Dutch list is longer than the English list.

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